Kindness Wins

In junior high, there was this girl that hassled me.  I think she thought I was a little too goody-goody.  After a long bus ride home, I dumped all my worries on my Mom.  She told me to "kill her with kindness".  At first I was skeptical, but an opportunity arose.  She needed a calculator in class.  I offered to let her borrow my pink one.  And somehow after that, she treated me a little better.  We weren't adversaries anymore.  And I was a believer in Mom's tip.

Kindness always wins.  Even if the person doesn't change how they treat you, you can hold your head high knowing that you chose the high road.

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